Although I personally did not experience the
horrors of partition, its effects
have reached down through generations of Sindhis. The stories of families
being torn
apart, murder and rape are numerous and
horrifying.
I was
to hear such stories from
my paternal grandmother, Dadi Jethibai Khiantani and
her
sister, my
great
aunt Dadi Parpati Mirchandani.
While my family and I sat around the table after having our
evening
meal, my grandmother would recount her stories,
mostly very sad,
about
leaving the world that she knew and loved. She
took great pride in telling her
only grand-daughter what she went through. I
remember the wonderful (but sometimes frightening)
stories
that my grandmother and
great
aunt
would tell me as a young
girl
about what it was like when they
lived
in Hyderabad, Sindh, and how they felt to leave their beloved homeland
for
good.
I always thought of my grandmother as a lady of great internal
strength.
Her frail physical appearance disguised a strong and resourceful
personality. She was the only grandparent I ever knew and her memory
is very precious to me.
My Beloved Bhabhi
Dadi Jethi Khiantani 1906 - 1994
When they left Sindh, the two sisters went with their children to
live
in Gujrat (India), where they lived for the rest of their lives. Many
years later,
when my parents had grown up and had their own families, they
sometimes
came over to the United Kingdom to visit my family and
these
times
were wonderful for me. Hearing the stories of their
lives,
in
which partition and its consequences played huge roles, was an
unforgettable
learning experience for me. I never saw my maternal Grandmother Dadi
Rukmani Samtani.
Dadi Rukmani Samtani 1899 - 1966
However, I know from others that she was another lady of exceptional character and strength. She was forced to sell all of her family's personal possessions on the streets of Karachi before leaving with her two surviving children (one of whom was my mother). My mother often recounts experiences of life before partition when she and her enormous extended family lived in a large mansion. She remembers when they were forced to leave their home, and what little point there was in locking the door of the house before leaving. They were ordered not to do so by Government officials who were preparing Sindh for the new Muslim inhabitants.
I know that because of partititon, both my grandparents' and my parents' lives were touched by poverty. This site is dedicated to my grandmothers and my great aunt who lovingly brought up their children during hard times. This site is also dedicated to people who, during this time, lost their lives, their families and their loved ones.
Thus, I welcome you to the Sindhi Exodus Web site, and hope that I
can
give you a glimpse of what it was like for
people living through the partition of India.